Grandpa,
I hate that all a woman has to do is claim that a man made a lewd or off-color remark and his career is over. I have spent my life looking to always say something complimentary to co-workers, those on the street, just everyone with whom I am in contact. If I can pass on a smile, my day is improved. Until this morning. A customer came into the store to buy an accent piece for her outfit. I said she made a good choice in her outfit; her blouse really set off the color of her eyes. She reported that I was looking at and commenting about her female anatomy. I was suspended, pending an investigation. From what I just experienced and what I have seen on the news, it looks like the ugliest women are the ones who scream harassment the most. It is like they need the attention.
Grandpa says; I don’t hold with the idea that you proffered. I cannot say what happened in your case, or any other case where I was not present to witness. It is sad, but true, that some who are overly sensitive are so by their own desires. I would guess it to be a form of Munchausen Syndrome. In any case, the facts need to be brought to light. Many all too often put their own perspective and motive on to others. If you know in your heart that your motive was pure, then start looking for a new position now because you do not know what will come of this situation. We live in precarious times. Always be prepared. Never lose your positive personality. Don’t take her attitude personally. She is she and you are you. Take care of yourself.
Grandpa,
I always have had dogs. I live on a farm and a dog is more than a pet or friend. She is a co-worker. Not this newest Lab I got last Fall. She was good at everything I was training her to do. This dog is afraid of rabbits. If she sees one, she wimps out on me. I am not talking about big jack rabbits. We don’t have them in Illinois. I am talking about little bunnies. This farm dog is terrified of cuddly little bunnies. She will chase crows and hawks, foxes or just about any other wild animal. Bunnies terrify her. Not asking for advice. I know I am keeping her. I just had to tell you about it.
Grandpa says; Thank you. I can’t say as to what a bunny might have done to traumatize your dog. If you would like to really get this out to a larger listening audience, Craigslist has a rants and raves section. You might get some really fun replies if you post it there. Feel free to send to me any of the replies you choose to share.
Beloved readers, if you would like to comment on the Retriever that is afraid of bunnies, feel free to do so. Any dog whisperers out there? Maybe you could give us some insight.
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